I do have a wireless card on the way from AmigaKit but with the talk of no WPA2 maybe I'll need a fall back position...
I'm sorry to say that, but no WPA2/AES - only WEP, WPA/TKIP. Can you check if you can set up your router into WPA only and TKIP only. No mixed mode.
These cards work with the 3c589 driver
Wired:
3Com: 3C589D, 3C589D-TP
3Com Megahertz: 3CCE589ET
http://aminet.net/package/driver/net/3c589SMC: SMC8040TX - this card does not work with Amiga
Netgear: FA410TX
This one uses cnet drivers
http://aminet.net/package/driver/net/cnetdeviceIntel: PRO/100 LAN+Modem56 PC Card - this card does not work with Amiga
Wireless:
Linksys: WPC54GS v2 - this card does not work with Amiga, it's 32-bit card bus. Amiga is 16-bit PCMCIA.
I also suggest you have a look at a Roadshow TCP/IP stack.
It supports DHCP.
http://roadshow.apc-tcp.de/index-en.php