Ok, so I got somewhere this weekend with it.
I pulled out the GVP SCSI card with the extra ram and then returned the SetPatch back to the original one. And it now boots up fine however the workbench is sowing only chip ram the "other mem" is reporting 0?
Why would that be?
I tried the CF card that I have with AmigaKits new OS 3.1 and it also boots fine into workbench but also shows 0 other mem
Update: striped it down to the main board only and got the fast ram to show up after taking them out and putting them back in. Gotta love the sockets they used!
So now just trying to get OS3.9 on the blank CF card and then I'm going to try to get that dumb TrueIDE adapter to work. Ugh! It should be so simple LOL