My condolences Adam. This must be a very difficult time.
If you have acces to a Mac, you could very easily create an iPhoto album and publish it to a .Mac account. It automatically creates all the code and uploads it, along with the pictures, to an FTP site of your choice. It's a one-click operation (once you have imported the photos).
Let me know if I can be of any assistance. I would gladly set this up for you on my Mac. I've also got lots of web space if you need to borrow any.
Mark
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moto