Ok, my sig says my A4000T has 128mb of ram. LIE! I do plan to upgrade it though

Its 32mb and is on the Cyberstorm MKII and not on the mobo.
What type of ram should i buy?
64Mb or 128Mb ?
One ram chip or 2 ?
After taking a look at the cyberstorm it looks like a real ba**ard to fit the ram. Any tips?
Do i risk breaking the cyberstorm ram holder?