I'd be surprised if many of the people "complaining" about the different look and feel even have an interest..... they've made a choice as to which one they like regardless of the products.
It's all about complaining and being convinced that the option a person has made is the right one, regardless of any sort of logic or facts when it comes to amiga/amiga-oid systems.
Make them identical and people will still find (or more accurately concoct) issue.