I second what da9000 said; just file a complaint with eBay and Paypal and you'll see your stuff eventually (or they'll freeze her account until you do). That is, I'm afraid, the only way to protect your investment in $$$. I bought a few things from this seller and some arrived quickly, others only after many emails and even resorting to a complaint. In all the late cases, I finally got some strange excuse like 'kid stuck a fork in his eye, somebody died, yada yada yada'. Whether these were true or not, only one person really knows; but how long does it take to respond to an email after you've been waiting for a month? Hell, my job only gives me three days bereavement maximum, and she must be running out of dying relatives by now.