@argo, i must agree with kurt in regards to principles, im not going to go back thru and read the posts as i dont care much for helping the flames grow hotter, but i think what he is saying is its the covert indirect comments that dont say detrimental things outright but do imply them on the sly, via the general "gist" or disposition of the post, thats what is getting out of hand. The defence is always something like "but i didnt say that exactly" but most often it is implied, which to me means they *did* say it, but not using the words that make it obvious
Aaaanyway, like i said, im not going to read thru someones previous posts to figure them out, but if someone says something many many times with a common theme, you can pretty safely assume that if something they say seems similar without saying it directly, then its likely they are saying the same thing with different and more subtle words, but still saying it notheless.
@kurt, out in the open would be good i guess. It would be nice to know at least who the people are that need to be read with a little more caution...