Hmm, I'll give them a call on Monday (I do need the Toaster CD software as well) but I was under the impression that all they could provide was a picture of the pinout and then I'd have to fab one myself. I'm not nearly crafty enough for that!
Give Newtek a try. Get some one in the support department and tell then you have a first generation Toaster/flyer. Talking to the regular sales rep will probably get no where. I had to call several times and talk to at least 4 different people before someone new what I was talking about. If they can find another cable and CD (you need last version, 4.3 I think) they will be happy to sell them to you. That's were I got my cable and CD. If you strike out, we'll see what can be done to get you one made.
The picture I directed you to was not from Newtek. It was of my own cable I layed bare for others to see the unique and custom way in which it's built.
http://tinyurl.com/FlyerCablePlaz