"emulation: The low-level simulation of equipment or phenomena by artificial means, such as by software modeling. Note that simulation may also allow an abstract high-level model."
"simulation: Simulation is the imitation of some real thing available, state of affairs, or process. The act of simulating something generally entails representing certain key characteristics or behaviours of a selected physical or abstract system."
Applying these rules strictly, a 68000 is just an "emulator" (or "simulator") of the same circuit made with discrete logic, which in turn is a simulation of transistor gates, and so on down to the electron flow level... hmmm yes, this might be true, any Amiga is just "emulating" the original Lorraine boards made out of TTL chips!

FPGA appears to be pretty similar to writing a computer program.
It appears, but it's not. Abstracting the circuit with a program-like listing it's just a convenient human representation.
The only parts of a VHDL (or verilog) design matching your description are
testbenches, written in purely behavioural style.
AFAIK it's not possible to produce a working (complex) FPGA design out of purely behavioural description (i.e. like translating a software algorithms and constructs).
Structural VHDL is much more similar to circuit schematic entry and PCB layout, than to a programming language. Despite resembling the latter more.
And you can bake your FPGA to a mass production chip.
Unfortunately it's not that simple. If it was, producing custom ASICs running at 500MHz and more would be one order of magnitude cheaper.