One solution is someone to help you via teamviewer making a WinUAE config same as your amiga with the CF plugged to a card reader.
Then step by step you can see how it's done or even asking questions through the communication of teamviewer or skype.
When the work is done the CF will boot from your real amiga too (99% after all Amiga is full of surprises :-)
I wish I could help you but my time is limited and will be till mid of September.