Gaaah!

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Sorry to hear that sir

Am in a dilemma myself right now, am with a girl who's very pretty, intelligent, loyal and funny.  

The only problem is that she most definitely wants children and soon.  

And I most definitely don't...  

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nicholas wrote:
On the other hand, I can tell you that being a Dad is the best thing that can ever happen to you.  I didn't want kids until my boy came along, now I wouldn't change it for the world.

Thing is everyone tells me that and keeps telling me that.  My g/f wants me to change my mind and I've had so much pressure to do just that, from g/f and friends alike.

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Cyberus wrote:

well I did the mature thing...I phoned up an old f**k friend and met up with her within 30 mins of being rejected by the other young lady...
:-(

well, it was worth it at the time, but god knows I feel miserable now!

A liaison with a "non-commital" lady friend is oft a short term fix for a long term lady related issue.  But well done for reacting in a textbook manner Cyberus!  :pint:

I recall when a long term relationship of mine broke up four years ago, my usual standards of chivalry slipped somewhat, especially the notable incident involving strawberry yoghurt, my nipples and two sisters aged 22 & 18.

That was a surreal moment I can tell you.

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nicholas wrote:

What is it that you think you will lose by having a child?

It's not so much a case of what I'd lose...

In all honesty I've never really liked kids.  I'm never comfortable around them and most certainly don't want one myself.  Trouble is, that some people see me as a sort of challenge "Oh, but you absolutely must have children!".  My g/f too is mad keen on children and keeps asking me when and if I'll ever change my mind which often results in tears from her when I explain that I won't.

I've been honest and upfront with her from the word go, but she's putting me under so much pressure right now it's untrue.

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Cheers Whabang and apologies to Cyberus for hijacking this thread.  

That is my suspicions also.  She's kind of got this utopia in mind of having a family and staying home to look after it.  

Everytime I try and walk away she becomes very needy and I'm pulled back in...

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Cheers for that one Bloodline :pint:

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Oh Jeez...  G/f and I have broken up and she's not taken it well at all...  Just when I think she's coming to terms with everything, events take a whole twisted f-ed up turn.

Went to London yesterday for drinks with a female email buddy (of three years, purely platonic and flirtation free standing) whom I've never met before... She turns out to be THE most beautiful woman I've ever met.

Nothing happens of course but I can't get my pal's unexpectedly unfeasibly lovely aesthetic prowess out of my head.  Meanwhile, within twenty minutes of getting home my ex turns up in a very emotional state.  Things go out of control and I end up in bed with ex...

It'll probably take months to sort all this cr@p out now!  I need a head transplant.

Gaaah! indeed.

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Doobrey wrote:
Personally, I think women are like FPGA chips.
Once you understand how they work, they instantly reprogram themselves with a new set of rules and you have to start all over again. :roll:

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