redrumloa wrote:
I have actually TWO comments on this subject.
Here's my first thought:
Same here. It's a whole mindset that it seems all western cultures have. People think Well the boy must have enjoyed it. Well yeah, maybe a girl would have too. It really should be treated the same accross the board and it isn't. Whether they enjoyed it or not doesn't matter. Adults certainly should not be taking advantage of kids under any circumstances.
Yeah, adolescent males are much more aware of the physical act of love and adolescent girls tend to be more attuned to the emotional. However, if someone's taken advantage of and damaged emotionally, the net result is still the same.
Being completely honest, if one of my mates had been bedded by a female teacher at 14 he'd have received hero worship. If it were a female who'd been seduced by a male teacher, they'd be instantly stigmatised themselves by their peer group.
Here's my second thought on the subject:
Where the hell were these teachers when I was in school! :lol:
Haha! At fourteen my one greatest wish was to be seduced by a very attractive woman say ten years my senior... But amongst the teaching staff at my secondary school, candidates were lacking :-)
However, from my own perspective I was also highly sensitive to the emotional side of things too and being seduced and then discarded by a predatory female teacher would have done me untold emotional damage...
My own first love at the tender age of sixteen was traumatic enough, believe me.
