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Title: Grumpy old men...
Post by: PMC on January 07, 2005, 11:25:10 AM
I had a startling realisation yesterday morning.  I realised that even at my tender age of thirty years old I am in fact a "grumpy old man" (tm).

In my life I've worn many labels, there was the teenage raver phase (complete with ultra baggy Pepe jeans, paisley hoody and Adidas trainers), the student phase (worn clothing, spending student grant on alcohol, herbal remedies and Bob Marley albums), the angry young man phase (speaking out against social injustice, New Labour and abuses of human rights) and now I've run headlong into what will probably be the final phase of my life.

Here's the link for anyone who empathises with me:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/4145681.stm

And I've just been hit with another realisation too... Many of you here are "Grumpy old men" too.  And not all of you are "old" or even actually "men".  
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: bloodline on January 07, 2005, 11:29:20 AM
You must have missed the sock abuse phase :-?
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: PMC on January 07, 2005, 11:40:31 AM
@Bloodline,

It's called "being a teenager" isn't it?

It usually consists of being surly, hanging around street corners smoking other peoples cigarettes, dealing with acne issues, listening to embarrassing music and owning an adult literature collection of staggering proportions, which we're convinced is a secret from our parents, whom we rely on to clean our rooms and launder our socks...  Not to mention kidding ourselves that the peachy fuzz on our tip lips really does qualify as "stubble".

Yeah, it's a rite of passage I suppose?
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: bloodline on January 07, 2005, 11:54:03 AM
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PMC wrote:
@Bloodline,

It's called "being a teenager" isn't it?

It usually consists of being surly, hanging around street corners smoking other peoples cigarettes, dealing with acne issues, listening to embarrassing music and owning an adult literature collection of staggering proportions, which we're convinced is a secret from our parents, whom we rely on to clean our rooms and launder our socks...  Not to mention kidding ourselves that the peachy fuzz on our tip lips really does qualify as "stubble".


Um... that's still a way of life for me :-(
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Vincent on January 07, 2005, 03:15:47 PM
I've been a grumpy old man for years... I'm only 27 :-o :-P
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: cecilia on January 07, 2005, 03:25:45 PM
you kids are REDICULOUS! :lol:
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Speelgoedmannetje on January 07, 2005, 03:44:30 PM
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Vincent wrote:
I've been a grumpy old man for years... I'm only 27 :-o :-P
pha, I was a grumpy old man since the day I was born...
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: PMC on January 07, 2005, 03:53:29 PM
Well, I'm grumpier than all of you.  Put together.

So there.

Grumpiness...  It ain't what it used to be when I were a lad.  A good old rant used to mean something... etc, etc.

:lol:
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Turambar on January 07, 2005, 04:02:19 PM
Im often accused of being a 60yr old in a 20yr olds body. Does that count as me being a grumpy old man?
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: PMC on January 07, 2005, 04:29:52 PM
So does that mean you're 1/3rd of a Grumpy Old Man?

Or that you're 3 times grumpier than the average guy your age?

Either way, welcome to the GOM (Grumpy Old Man) Club!
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Doobrey on January 08, 2005, 12:39:17 AM
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PMC wrote:
Many of you here are "Grumpy old men" too.  And not all of you are "old" or even actually "men".  

Just cos I`m half Ewok, there`s no need to get personal..

I always find shopping in those stupid homogenous retail parks turns me into a grumpy old man.
 Especially B&Q or Homebase, but especially in PC World  :pissed:
 Why don`t they put printer cables near the {bleep}ing printers instead of the other side of the shop next to the gel  filled mousepads?
 Need paper? better check near the stack of PSU`s cos staff there would never think to put them anywhere close to other related products.. :pissed:

 Then the bloody annoying staff that know pretty much sod all about the stuff they sell....
 I managed to waste over an hour asking if a CD-Rom drive was IDE or SCSI, cos the box didn`t say..and they wouldn`t let me open the box to find out. 6 blooming sales people  couldn`t help, the best answer I got was "erm, well, it plugs inside your computer"  :destroy:
 Shame they wouldn`t let me demonstrate what I could do with a 400W PSU and some crocodile clips... :evilgrin:
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: McNorris on January 08, 2005, 01:13:17 AM
Anybody talkin' bout the "good old days of Amiga" computers is for sure on their way to being a grumpy old man....


Back in my day we only had 64K and WE LIKED IT!!! :-)

@Doobrey

Like that avatar. Live hard, die free. Rock and Roll!!!
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Vincent on January 08, 2005, 01:38:36 AM
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Doobrey wrote:
Shame they wouldn`t let me demonstrate what I could do with a 400W PSU and some crocodile clips... :evilgrin:

:lol:

You'd have to ask them where they keep their crocodile clips first :-P
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: FluffyMcDeath on January 08, 2005, 04:56:07 AM
Would you kids quit yer yammerin'?
Some of us are trying to get a little shut-eye.
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: X-ray on January 08, 2005, 11:16:13 AM
You guys can take comfort in one thing: for every ten of you there is one of me. When everything is turning to crap around me, I just think to myself "Isn't this another fine mess we've got ourselves into, eh?"
Of course, there are times when a little surliness is warranted. Here's an example:

I was asked to X-ray  a 50 year-old-woman in the casualty department, using a mobile X-ray machine. When I got there and stepped into the cubicle I found a very obese woman there who was short of breath and not entirely 'with it'. She had an oxygen mask on and her eyes were half-closed. As I lowered the trolley side down, this woman started puking. Most of it was going into the face-mask, but there were two streams of puke that escaped via the intakes. The left stream decorated my left trouser leg. I had to pull the mask off (puke flying everywhere) otherwise the woman would have choked on her own vomit. I said "Okay, my dear, we'll clean you up, don't worry" and I was reaching to untie the elastic that secured the mask so I could throw it away.....

BAM !!!!

This woman punched me so hard that I got a yellow flash in my vision. She connected me on the right zygoma (cheek bone) quite a good shot. Well, I stepped back, blinking a bit, and looking around for a nurse, but they were at the nurses station. There was definitely something wrong with this woman, she was not all there, if you know what I mean. I shouted out "Nurse! I need a hand here!"
I started backing the X-ray machine towards the curtain, and then approached one more time to try to get the trolley side back up and the mask off. And that's when this woman did something that I have yet to see again: she cupped here hands betwween her legs, urinated in her hands and then threw that at me. I didn't get the whole lot, but several drops hit me on the neck and shoulder.
And that's when I got grumpy. But that's understandable.

But generally, I'm a happy guy and it takes a lot to get me down. I work nicely under pressure and I don't rely on people too much. I find life to be more manageable that way. If you're in a fix and it looks hopeless, that's when I am a gem.
Of course, I do irritate my colleagues from time to time. Just yesterday at lunch several girls were complaining about working weekend shifts (they couldn't swap with someone else) which means that some of them can't go on a group snowboarding trip. I hushed the whole table and gave them this line:

"Ask not what your hospital can do for you...but what you can do for your hospital"

 :lol:

(I almost got several bowls of spaghetti tipped on me)
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Vincent on January 08, 2005, 03:09:20 PM
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X-ray wrote:
(I almost got several bowls of spaghetti tipped on me)

:lol:
I bet the only reason it was "almost" was due to "office proffesionalism" :-P
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: X-ray on January 08, 2005, 07:17:51 PM
@ Vince

 :lol:   Yes you're right.

I like to mix in some quotes for the girls from time to time. Here's another one I told them (when they were moaning about their pay and their hours):

"Never before has so much work been done by so many girls, for so few bucks"

And another one that almost cost me a kick in the groin (but I was too quick for her):

"Put a smile on your dial, toots. After all, a happy worker is a productive worker"
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Doobrey on January 08, 2005, 11:03:53 PM
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Vincent wrote:
Quote
Doobrey wrote:
Shame they wouldn`t let me demonstrate what I could do with a 400W PSU and some crocodile clips... :evilgrin:

:lol:

You'd have to ask them where they keep their crocodile clips first :-P


Already got that one covered.. 6" nails make excellent wire wrap terminals  :-o  
 And before you ask, go next door to Homebase, and you`ll find them between the hedgetrimmers and the shower curtains..unless it`s a Wednesday when they rearrange the entire store again just in case anyone could actually find something without resorting to using GPS. :pissed:
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Wilse on January 08, 2005, 11:52:56 PM
@X-Ray:

Quote
I was asked to X-ray a 50 year-old-woman in the casualty department, using a mobile X-ray machine. When I got there and stepped into the cubicle I found a very obese woman there who was short of breath and not entirely 'with it'. She had an oxygen mask on and her eyes were half-closed. As I lowered the trolley side down, this woman started puking. Most of it was going into the face-mask, but there were two streams of puke that escaped via the intakes. The left stream decorated my left trouser leg. I had to pull the mask off (puke flying everywhere) otherwise the woman would have choked on her own vomit. I said "Okay, my dear, we'll clean you up, don't worry" and I was reaching to untie the elastic that secured the mask so I could throw it away.....

BAM !!!!

This woman punched me so hard that I got a yellow flash in my vision. She connected me on the right zygoma (cheek bone) quite a good shot. Well, I stepped back, blinking a bit, and looking around for a nurse, but they were at the nurses station. There was definitely something wrong with this woman, she was not all there, if you know what I mean. I shouted out "Nurse! I need a hand here!"
I started backing the X-ray machine towards the curtain, and then approached one more time to try to get the trolley side back up and the mask off. And that's when this woman did something that I have yet to see again: she cupped here hands betwween her legs, urinated in her hands and then threw that at me. I didn't get the whole lot, but several drops hit me on the neck and shoulder.
And that's when I got grumpy. But that's understandable.


Farking right it's understandible! :laughing:

X-Ray,  I know it probably wasn't funny at the time but I almost spat my beer out when I read that. I hope you'll excuse me.

I'm going to get Susan to read this in a minute - I know she'll be able to relate. :lol:

Cheers sir! :pint:
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Speelgoedmannetje on January 09, 2005, 12:00:46 AM
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FluffyMcDeath wrote:
Would you kids quit yer yammerin'?
Some of us are trying to get a little shut-eye.
:lol:

/hides
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: X-ray on January 09, 2005, 12:00:38 PM
@ Wilse

Yup, I wasn't happy at the time! But it is very funny when I think of it today. Who else do you know who got puked on, punched, and pissed on by the same person in the space of five minutes?

That has to be a record of some kind. It is a guaranteed Source of Grumpiness.
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: that_punk_guy on January 09, 2005, 12:13:43 PM
Ugh. I was eating when I read that.
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: mikeymike on January 09, 2005, 01:03:53 PM
@ X-Ray

Weren't you warned that she wasn't entirely 'with it'?

Also, what country are you living in?  I wouldn't be surprised at all if you said 'UK', due to the competence of the NHS :P
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: Vincent on January 09, 2005, 02:15:26 PM
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X-ray wrote:
"Never before has so much work been done by so many girls, for so few bucks"

:roflmao:

@Doobrey

That sounds like our local Tesco.  Although it's just their fruit and veggies that keep changing.  Bloody annoying going down one isle to get tatties only to discover they've been yo-yo'd back to the other isle less than 2 days later :-x
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: X-ray on January 09, 2005, 09:33:21 PM
@ mikeymike

"..Weren't you warned that she wasn't entirely 'with it'?.."


-------------------------------------------------------

Hell, no. I was the guy they sent in to see if she was compis mentis.
When I came back in the condition I was, the doctor had the diagnosis without rolling his sleeves up.
 :lol:

That happened in SA, but the twisted Roosevelt and Churchill quotes I reserve for my colleagues here in London.
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: mikeymike on January 09, 2005, 09:46:22 PM
heh.  What country are you from?
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: X-ray on January 09, 2005, 09:50:34 PM
South Africa
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: PMC on January 10, 2005, 01:03:38 PM
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X-ray wrote:
South Africa


Having briefly lived there myself I can report that despite the sunshine and rich culture, many South Africans manage to be Grumpy Old Men.

Speaking of which, I saw "The Aviator" yesterday at the cinema and sat behind a group of pensioners.  A trailer was shown for Orange mobile phones featuring Patrick Swayze.

"What a load of old crap!" remarked the chap in front, and was rewarded with a big grin for his astute observation.
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: redrumloa on January 10, 2005, 05:15:13 PM
@X-Ray

Man was that gross, you must be putting us on :-?

I guess you didn't ask for a date.
Title: Re: Grumpy old men...
Post by: X-ray on January 10, 2005, 09:37:48 PM
@ Red

I must say if someone else told me a story like that I wouldn't believe it, but it is very true. It happened exactly as I recounted it. Sometimes some really comical things happen in hospitals.

Ooooooooh that just reminded me of a VERY grumpy patient we had one day. This gentleman was in his 70s and was originally from the far east (I think Japan, but nobody confirmed it at the time). He had been brought from the ward to the X-ray department on a wheelchair, and up until he was brought into the X-ray room, he was sweet as pie. I saw the porter pushing this gent on the chair into the room and I didn't notice anything odd about him. I just carried on writing in the register and two of the girls went to X-ray the guy. Well, everything was okay for a minute or two, then all of a sudden there was a crash as the wheelchair was bashed into the door and I could hear the girls shouting from inside. I thought to myself "Damn, they've allowed him to fall out of the wheelchair" and I went to see what was going on.
Well, the girls were cowering behind the X-ray control panel, and this elderly gentleman had adopted a kung-fu fighting stance and wouldn't let any of us near him. He was wild as a snake and couldn't speak any English. He was doing all these crazy moves and smacked the wall several times, very hard. This guy must have been a tough customer when he was a lad, and he was still tough enough for me to be worried, in his seveties. I immediately got the girls out and tried to make little signs to the guy (from the doorway) that everything was cool, and thankfully he didn't come out to kick some arse, because I don't know what would have happened if he did.

Apparently there was no reason for this outburst, even though I demanded to know from the girls why the chap flipped out like that. They did nothing to annoy him. He suddenly jumped out of the chair, kicked it against the door and almost gave them a few clips around their earholes. The guy was confused. We couldn't X-ray him and eventually when he had settled himself down, he allowed himself to be wheeled back to the ward.

Of course I took his name down and circulated it to the radiographers and warned them about him because he could give someone a clip one night when they go alone to X-ray him with a mobile machine on the ward.