I had a FF years and yeas ago. I remember it coming with software that had to be installed to activate the memory and get the accel. working right.
On the note of the system slowing down, that is a CLASSIC example of something overheating. If the fan is running and clean, I throw my hat in on the checking of the thermal paste.
Also, I noticed on the web page at the BBoAH it says that the 4 meg min. needs to be in the slots AWAY from the back plate.
And on that note, memory was diversified back then so make sure you have 8x30 SIMMs, NOT 9x30. If you are not sure, just count the # of mem. chips on each SIMM. 8=8 9=9
I have long since sold the FF but I remember who I sold it to so I'll e-mail him to see if he still has it and the disks...
Best of Luck!
J. Golden