Got your hands caught in the sweet jar?, shame. Why lawyers? Is your boss that unreasonable you couldn't explain what happened?
I didn't see the video in question but it sounds like there was enough hints early in and from the posts below it.
Just tell him/her you wouldn't dream of spanking the monkey with there equipment
IF you really did loose your job threw this and have been this naive, good luck with it all, but you should know better.