I can't believe you bunch of dildos complaining about ignore lists. That is, the ones complaining that they exist. That's like saying when I'm in my car, listening to my radio, I'm wrong to turn off some screeching windbag on the radio because I don't want to listen. Nobody's saying "This person should never be heard" - just that this person should never be heard by the individuals asking for help with ignore.
Also there is a "stay logged in" checkbox. It's up by your username near the "forgot your password".