If you can't understand why I might take issue with some of the things you have said not only to me but to people I'm friends with then I can't really help you on that.
I have only ever responded to you in the same manner in which you posted things about me (the past couple of days being a prime example).
As for you claiming because certain folk are your friends then that just a cop out, I don't ask folk to defend me and quite often ask them to keep out of it if I have a disagreement with someone.
To me we should all be grown up enough to be able to respond to things said ourselves without others jumping in to defend their friends and that applies to me as well.
That's what the report abuse button is for.
While I don't like to use that button, I have been forced to in recent days and on a number of occasion it a has been ignored despite being sent on more than one occasion for the same post.
Which just goes to prove my point about certain bias being shown here.
Try putting your open message in the sock drawer. Seems to me that section was practically born for such things. As for it being unfair, in my 30 years of life if there is one thing I have learned time and time again is that life is unfair.
The open letter to Wayne was moved to the sock drawer first by someone and then it was deleted by someone. Also there is no point in me responding to Wayne in those threads when his posts go unmoderated and my responses to them get moderated or deleted for using the exact same words as he does.
I know life isn't fair I did after all spend over 20 years being a Shop Steward and Regional Union Rep fighting for workers rights and believe me I've seen plenty unfair things in life and fought them all the way to the bitter end on behalf of the members no matter what the personal cost to my own health and job security.