I made progress. I think all this just might work out.
I made screenshots with my scope of what is going on with the E signal.
Initial shows the E from processor (yellow), vs the half divided E output of the modified accelerator. This is the condition at the beginning of this thread.
I was able to hide every other E pulse with an AND gate with inputs from two diver flip flops, the resulting E signal is 25/75 duty cycle. This produced a white screen, by itself this was not enough.
Another attempt was to just use the divider output with 50/50 duty cycle, as in Dennis's design, but likewise by itself it produced a white screen.
Last (working) picture shows E from processor (yellow), 1st divider flip flop (green), and the E output from AND of two divider flip flops (pink). There is about 8ns delay of the pink pulse vs yellow, and a 4ns delay relative to green. I was able to boot to Workbench with a physical floppy (Epson SMD-300), but not the Gotek, although
I was able to run ATK from Gotek and do the timer tests, they all passed. No game tests because I don't have any on hand on a physical floppy, need to get the Gotek working. I think it's a timing problem, I think I need to shave at least 4ns with faster flip flops, which I don't have on hand, will need to order some. This is all the progress I can make until then.
So what got it working is feeding this E signal into the NOR gate (U4C on the schematic), as well as using this E to trigger the /VPA and /VMA latching (U5B).
I have an idea for how to generate proper 40/60 duty cycle, by doing an AND of the 1st divider flip flop and the E from processor, then XOR with 2nd divider flip flop. The cycle math works out as follows, at 28MHz the period of E the Amiga chipset expects is 40 cycles (4x10), so the 50/50 pulse generated by the divider is 20 cycles. The E pulse from the processor is 4 cycles. By using the circuit I described I cut off 4 cycles from the pulse of 20. The result is a pulse of 16 cycles, which is 40% of the 40 cycle period. I am not going to try this until I get faster divider flip flops because this isn't the source of my problem at the moment.
observation I made regarding the 14MHz accelerator in OP that the flip flop (74x112) used to divide the E frequency from the processor is falling edge triggered! Meaning the E signal it outputs is delayed by the 4 processor clock cycles (of the 10 in the 6/4 duty cycle split) and rises on the falling edge of processor E![/b] (That doesn't seem right, but somehow it works.)
I kept thinking about this, and what I read in the 68000 datasheet. The datasheet says the beginning of the E period is not guaranteed, so it wouldn't matter if the generated E pulse is delayed by whole cycles. This is likely why this "just works". I did still have a concern whether it's a problem when externally generated E is somewhere else relative to the processor state machine, but I realize the divided E frequency wouldn't coincide with any processor state machine anyway, so it seems this doesn't matter either since I already know that works.