Since there are 16 sockets, the CPU needs 32 bit width and there's no such a thing as a 2 bit wide RAM chip, you'll need '4x' chips: 414256 (4x256K) or 414400 (4x1M) - depending on the RAM controller - in sets of 8. 4x256K would only give 1 MB, so the serious (and possibly the only) choice would be to use 4x1M - these are exactly the same as for an A3000. BBoAH states the card supports up to 8 MB (non-autoconfig), so that matches.
4x256K can be found on some old VGA cards, but 4x1M will probably have to be bought. Either take your time for ebay or ask Softhut, about a year ago they had them stocked ($40/4 MB).