You could promise to never ever turn on that immature, fraud-ridden, "reputation system" ever again.
As it stands now, I know about 30 Amiga users who play Total Chaos AGA. They are not members of Amiga.org. But if I was to invite them and tell them about the Social Group they might come.
But I absolutely cannot invite Doctors and Nurses and NASA Employees to come to a forum (Amiga.org) and then suddenly they find all this childishly immature bitchslapping going on. It would reflect very badly on me to involve mature people into such an environment.
As it stands now I have been keeping my social group a secret. It would sure be nice to end the fear.
Thank you for your consideration.